Am I looking for a nice gal? No, not at all. That sounds like a tall order. And it should be. Just a nice gal? No thanks. Too basic for me. Originally posted Oct Updated October Shaun Galanos Shaun Galanos is a love coach and course creator.
He teaches communication and intimacy tools for better relationships and more love. Relationships build slowly over time, and that pace should start from day one.
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Doing drugs, drinking excessively, skinny dipping, trespassing. These things involve guts and the adrenaline rush that comes with it can easily be mistaken for genuine fun. In some weird way, this is attractive because uncertainty creates a feeling of freedom. We feel unhinged from reality, and this carelessness helps us feel light about our lives. Without certainty, we can be whoever we want to be and act however we want to.
Don't ask these one after another, spend time on each topic, maintaining an interest in what she is saying. Remember, this is a lengthy process, so don't screw it up early by wanting to rush. Once you've kept up with this for a while, you can start getting a little more personal about the things you speak about.
Keep talking. Girls like guys that can be honest and talk about things in their lives. They also need a person to listen to them and the things they say. Take the first step. If you are comfortable with the girl, and you feel that you can trust her, help her to be able to trust you. Before you do this next step, make sure that she has confided in you a few things about herself.
Once this is done, set a date. Don't be too forward. If she has done what was previously been stated, you will not be rejected. Don't be the bad guy. Girls, as much as you don't believe it, like the guy who listens to them more than the tough guy.
Yes, they want to feel protected physically, but nothing beats being emotionally protected. This is very important. Once you have the date, keep your composure. Don't be nervous. You've talked with this girl for a while now, and you've let her know the kind of person you are.
She was willing to go out with that person, so don't be nervous. You're in a good spot. Don't change anything. You're now in the honeymoon period, where you have some time to get used to each other. This is the time that you do the cute things of the relationship. Come up with a song together that you can label as "Our song. These are only examples, you can choose yourself, this is just a guide for what you should look for.
Also, if you have a band you both mutually are really into, try to choose a song by that band. Make sure to read the lyrics and understand the song before you pick though.
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